It may be a matter for regret that the competitive approach currently predominates in Western society. Games originally invented for the enjoyment of the players have been converted into competitive industries for professional practitioners. Throngs of 'supporters' get their vicarious thrills from becoming emotionally attached to particular individual 'stars' or teams and, for many of them, the "working" week is merely a means of earning money to spend on travel, admission fees, and purchasing gaudy material symbols of their attachment. The most ardent fans experience brief periods of ecstasy when their team wins. But for every winner, there must be a loser; and the fans of the losing side are plunged into depths of despair if the club has a long losing run. Ironically, there seems to be a tendency to celebrate success and drown sorrows in the same way — by resorting to excessive consumption of alcohol or other 'mind-altering' substances.
Individuals who are good at games become "professionals" and the most successful achieve the same sort of glamour and monetary rewards as other public entertainers who are often held in higher public esteem than the highest ministers of state or of religion. But professional players are ultimately materially dependent on the fans who may capriciously transfer their allegiance elsewhere, and their careers may be suddenly ended by physical or psychological injury. In such a regime, there is little ground for security for either players or spectators.
It seems to me that if life is to be enjoyed fully, there is a strong case not only for playing games purely for fun but also for turning all work into play.
If you play the game of life in a co-operative manner you may be confident that, just as in other games, you will find by experience that you not only enhance your own enjoyment but also help to enrich the lives of those who share the playing field with you. Every player wins all the time. By cultivating such an attitude, you too could become a consistent winner.
Which approach do you feel drawn towards?
